Synthesis

Have you experience somebody questioning you question ?

Or your own statement is confronted with your contra statement ?

Yes , statement mostly have their opposite statement ?

Dialect theory, each thesis have their anti-thesis (Although Hegel is avoiding this term).

Purpose & motivation, I think have a role! If the synthesis is not the goals, such "the way of questioning" can be easily "shifted" to the joy of making the "Anti" ! I (shortly) tried to read the Hegel, I feel it is about "Self development" rather than only looking for an "Anti" or even Apologia.