Freedom
What is freedom ?
Is a "public" private journey considered a private journey ? What a "BLOG" question is that ?
What is freedom ?
Do not want what is others !
"Deuteronomy 5:21 (KJV) Neither shalt thou desire thy neighbour's wife, neither shalt thou covet thy neighbour's house, his field, or his manservant, or his maidservant, his ox, or his ass, or any thing that is thy neighbour's."
It is written as "desire". Also written as covet.
"Exodus 20:17 (KJV) Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's."
Covet is described as more than just "want" but more "lust" , "very desire".
So it's a kind of ..so much "desireous" for a things . And it is desired - because it's owned by others.
Perhaps also so desireous - that forgot to want what is owned.
Don't judge others !
But we need to evaluate right ?
I don't know is it the same or not. Perhaps it's not. Between to evaluate and to judge.
But
Imagine if one will be judged not on how big his sins is , but by how he judged others.
I think it's better to be more generous. Which anyway , who are we , sinners to judge.
(Actually we are the one who need pardon)
The "Respond" and "Ability".
My Uncle passed away, yesterday night.
He is the eldest son in my mother family. I remember he used to take care of me, send me to school, cook for me , take me to sleep. He is an civilian engineer - works in so many project to make roads and bridge before.
I remember my mother said about him..he was so smart but quite rebellious. He used to play and read "ko ping ho" - skip school so many times but still become always the best in his class.
I was close to him when i was small , he take care of me like his own son. I feel bad, as I don't spend more time with him. Yes.
Rest in peace , dear uncle.
Today's verse is Colossians 3:23 "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;"
Yes , we are told to do it heartily - but for what purpose ?
Next verse is
:24 "Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ."
Our job only understood by God , but there're also the "reward" . Hence it is not only known but remembered. Not only remembered but appreciated. Not only appreciated but rewarded. And very interesting "for ye serve the Lord Christ".
And this is for "whatsoever ye do" - no matter what you are doing - if we do it "as to Lord".
But how about the our master in the world ? As it is written also "and not unto men;"
I think working as to the Lord , will/should give more satisfying result to our master in the world. That master can be our boss, our superior , our company , or leader , or even perhaps our costumers. Or if you are a superior of someone, wouldn't you be satisfied if you sub ordinate work for you as they work for Lord ?
How hard it is to listen ? I think very hard.
If you doubt it....that is one of the evidence....it's very hard.
History of human. Will the story of our life, be remembered - or just vanished someday - not eternal ? Or we will re-write the whole history from new ?
If it is for eternal, it is important to write it good from the start. If not, than it is important to have it good now.
I think, not only eternal - but it will watched by many.
Yep, I did visit again. Interesting.
Now, I'm thinking about friendships. What is friendships ?
When I'm a kid, I got my group of gang. It felt like the whole world to me. There is a big guy, the hero that gives us a sense of being protected. The wise guy, always gives you advise when you're down. The cool guy , many girls pursued him.
I think , there's mistery about friendships, about relation. Can you imagine a universe without any relation ?
But God is faithfull. So beautifull !
I was visiting this site , yesterday.
Between that yesterday, to the last post is some 9 years.
And between yesterday to the first post is some 12 years.
It is between a Genie Philips Handphone, Nokia handphone and Ipad 12 and Hua Hwei. Perhaps Blackbery in the middle.
Between Presiden Taxi and Go Grab.
By the way Blue Bird is still arround.
Responsibility, is the "ability" to "respond" - which is part of who we are !
Ask then you'll shall be given !
Here I am in a world with cooking...the resto world !
One of my admired ex-leader and friend plan to resign - reminded me on my previous mine.
Anger...fire that burn ! With it, many burn people , many burnt people...they got burnt..so many burnt unnecessarily !
We are always someone's else servant - there will be always someone above us. Bill Gates have costumers as his boss. Obama have elections.
A thought to be an ultimate boss, is just an illusion.Â
If everything about God can be examined by our mind, than our mind is greater than god ! But, using that very same mind.....would we believe a god that smaller than our mind ..as God ?
Is government to govern or to serve ?
A government loose it's effectiveness when they can't govern ! Infact, why anyone need a government that cannot govern it's people ?
The other extreme is, a government that govern it's people to serve the governmen itself !
Perhaps we are shifted from the one extreme to the other extreme !
How happy is the father that can feed his child well ! Giving is a sign of love ! It's difficult not to give when one is in love !
Or, it is difficult to say that one love someone else when he is hesitated to give to that someone.Â
Partial knowledge can lead to deceive ! Specially if it is seen as a full knowledge !Â
Yes, we can't know everything - we are always moving with incomplete knowledge !Â
So can faith is also explained as, even you can't see the way, you still walk - because you know that HIS hand wouldn't let you go !
Almost finished is equal as not done yet...often still a nothing !
My ex boss, Yohanes Teja, told me , no matter how good is an idea , without good & complete execution , it yield nothing ! Yet , small ideas , but with well execution yield better than nothing...a something !
Almost giving means never giving !
I've never bought any fancy cellphone, Phillips was my favourite - because of it's long time baterei !
But I bought a blackberry recently ! To have all your email sent to you at all time...I must admitted I see it differently now!
Reunion !
The stored memories are re-searched, so are the association with it. Some have good one, perhaps some have bitter one! Some are as if they never grew old, some are already passed away !
Once again the paths are crossed, a sign that we still have time - but a reminder that nothing are going to last forever. So let all be all good !
My first 2 years in college was very hard - at least for me ! Perhaps that's why it's not easy at that time for me to really say good bye to my high school ! Although my college was in other city, but I visited my ex-high school almost every month !
Only later, in my 3rd college year, one day I finally could really said good bye to my past ! And only after that, I found myself could appreciated & enjoyed my college time much better (proper) !
No matter how we want it, we can't turn the time back ! The appreciation on what was given is by moving forward ! The learning of past is to build the future ! The present time, enable us to do it !
Reunion ! If it is not only a nostalgia , then it should be a re-grouping !
Generalisation & oversimplification tend to mislead things ! "We should simplify things but not simpler !" , I think this is Einstein "quotation".
"Can you give me tips & trick , on how to know when the customer is ready to close the deal?" , a question in one of my session.
Suppose we should come home very..very ... late after midnight ...and find our wife angry with us ! Sometimes we ask her "Are you angry ?" - and what usually is the answer ?
Most participants in that session answered, " She'll say ...No, I'm not angry!" - I was assuming the same one as well ! The point is, we know she was angry even when she said "I'm not angry !".
Human have incredible ability to understand others ! We did it naturally - specially with those who are closed with our heart.
I tried my answer as "If you know your wife was angry, then you should be able to read costumer !"
Perhaps we have given it ! A second chance to live the life - we just don't realize it !Â
So live it wisely & carefully ! It is perhaps already the second chance ! Like any second, It last only a second ! Appreciate & embrace it !
Employee is not an asset . If the organization is a body - the employee is the living cell.
The world is not always fair - often unfair !Â
So are the fact that, people don't always love you, some even betray you ! Or so are bad things do come uninvited and unavoidable !Â
But it's also the fact that......it's not always that ugly ! There's day and night, rainy and shiny days ....summer & winter !
And the worse is, if we waste our good time in complaining our unfortunate time - it's turn the good time into unfortunate time - which ended up with the whole time unfortunate !
Work smart , not hard ! - But who do the hard then ? (unless life can be only about smart !)
Genesis 1:1 "In the beginning God created heaven & earth !" - the very first sentence of the bible book.
There is always a beginning, there is always a point of reference !
The last sentence / verse in Bible is : Relevation 22:21 The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.
In China & Rusia, a communist country - strike is prohibited ! Isn't communism is usually built by so they called....worker class as peasant, labor etc ?
On the contrary , labor strike are happen only in democracy country !Â
Would It means that labor have a better place in democracy country...actually ?
Light make everything clear. It doesn't changes the color , but brighten it !
Same with salt , it doesn't changes the color of diluted water -but the taste !
What is to celebrate with new year ?
Our time is not really added by a new year - infact it's taken ! Usually, it's not something to celebrate !
New year, the past that knock us not to waste tomorrow ! A reminder that the tomorrow is not for forever.Â
I read, "May only good things happen to you" - how about "Work on good things !"
Happy new year , friends !
"After working for so many years , what are your most remembered things ?", my raised question to a senior colleagues , perhaps in his early 60..
"Uhmmm......they are the warm chatting I have with friends !" , after few minutes pause - perhaps he was recalling his memory !
"Not the up and down of your carrer?", I was looking for a reconfirmation
"Yeah, sure ...that's too,... but the warm chatting with friends arrive first in my mind !", it was in the middle of 5 minute coffe break in our company meeting in Singapore - a short one !
It was in years 2003, I do not know what keep this chatting still clear & fresh in my mind ! I guess the chatting must have been very warm or he is my friend - perhaps both !Â
Education is that which remains, if one has forgotten everything one learned in school." - Albert Einstein
"How bad are our boss ?"
Just imagine you are a boss of yourself ! Then rate you as the boss ! What do you see ?
Then you'll have a better eyes on "how bad our boss ?"
Hidden and uncover potential is remained hidden if it's not discovered!
Even if it is discovered,it remained a potential only until it is trained ! Executives who fail to set high standard, leave their followers untrained & uncovered !
What makes one more succesfully than others ? Some believe leaders are made , others believe leaders are born ! Some people say luck - some people say destiny - others say effort !
It's not easy, but I have to move in to our family company. I've been delaying the decision until a recent crisis in our family company. In a way, the crisis helped me to decide the"move out" to "move in".
I have my good opportunity to look for the successor, I did offered the position to my team but no one take it so we hunted for the candidate from outside. She is an ex General Manager from PHILIPS ,and my friend , I'm glad we found her - now she's already on board. As for me, I served my few month to do the transition with her.
Today, a comment in newspaper, I think it's said that other ISM beside Communism also have no proof of succeed.
I read in newspaper - on something about I call "determination culture" !
"Marxism is just a response of the Capitalism" - I read the sentence in local Newspaper. It also sounds a one ism is a victim of another victim - but who are the real victim ?
There have been ISM after ISM raised in this world, all claimed as the better one if not the best answer - but yet it end up in having people killing their kind ! In the end , it always turned to simply about power & money - or in a negative sentence, fear of losing it !
Remembering the millions after millions people that have been butchered - as in .
and don't forget to add
..let us be reminded that the real victim are those ordinary civilians! (often cruely mentioned as the cost to pursue a noble goals ).
And if you carefully further examine , you'll find that these ISM always avoid any "kind"-ism or "love"-ism or "passion"-ism but affiliate to "power"-ism , "violance"-ism or "money"-ism - off course often advertised as "for the people".
So what is the difference between capitalism, communism or marxism ? It's just a different name of "power"ism !
When Hitler introduce the fight for "his class" by put themselves as "victim" , the churches were at it's silent ! Hence, If to be silent is already a sin, at least let we not to be it's roller dice !
Terorist is not muslim ! Muslims , as others do, do not accept terorism or it's way - hence also, Muslims is not terorist !
Problem is, these terorist often claim as muslim ! Even further, they make and blend it as an act of a religion!Â
Samuel Huttington wrote something about culture clash ! NO , it's not the culture that crashed, it's the people ! And often- in the end - it's simply about money & power !
Justice is not the same as equal !
How much should employer paid an employe for terminating the job - in Indonesia ?
By law, it's something like 2 times of you working years - multiply by your salary (with some other plus n plus ) !Â
Let say, for 5 years, it'll be more than 10 times salary ! A relatively high amount hence become sensitive !
Why don't it made it simpler & straight forward ! Just aggresively raised the salary up front so the quarrel after is saved ! Actually government had some plan to take some percentage of salary taken by both employee and employers - to be paid as a termination fee later on if something happen. It's a very common in procedure in other country !
They , the so called parties that claim protecting labor should agree with it....the simple & straight forward ideas...unless...., it's the potential dispute that they are keeping ! Until now, the law is not approved - as those party strongly disagree !
Saturday, the 6th day - a day where Friday turning into Sunday !
What is the joy of in love and pursuing money ? Perhaps in pursuing & collecting it - not in spending it !
Expecting the good things for others is the opposite from expecting the bad things - to curse !
"Salty" - the taste - I think taken from the world "salt"! Unlike sweet for taste of sugar, or hot for taste of chilli, Â or sour taste of tamarind (perhaps can be compared to peppery).
4th day of Jakarta flood , road are becoming one with the rivers !
We receive the mail from HQ, German , about the market size & share per country. It's said to be done by an independent surveyor company - which the estimation is not far from what we estimated !
Cooking....so many things you can do with it - unlimited possibility that challenge your creativity !
"She threated me to kill herself if I wouldn't see her !", my friend was terrified that someday his affair will even call her wife and have his family ruined !
They are in affair by their own reason, there are those who feel helpless trapped yet others just for excitement (abusing others for fun ?). The same thing is, it's always hurting others and always drive people crazy !
So....run away from it... as far as we can.....as soon as possible .....as immediatelly as we can we are not superman !
Last week sermont , "If stars only come & shine once in each 5 years, people will gather to see the stars with such an amazement.....!"
The possibility of a planet to become an earth - with life that can grow beautifully is almost impossible, if not impossible !
Democracy is not a synonym or an opposite of word "religion"
It's not fair for those who think that human have free will to blame God for it !
This morning, I was listening to a survey in the our local radio station - most of the respondents agreed that "human are the product of the environment !"
If the battle is about to win something , it will stopped when that something is achived !
A "jargon", as if human are helpless caught by cultures - not the otherway arround, people define their cultures !
I don't think one would touch the fire - it's hot ! This is the consistency, they know it's hot - as result - they will not touch to fire !
The so busy mind... it kept on thinking - never stopped ! Have anyone experienced a second that their mind is stopped ? No, it kept on thinking - question is what is the topic !
Can we do a multi thinking in a time ?
Karma - is it a kind of "Causal effect" - something like "What you sow what you get" - more or less perhaps a theory about "human pay what they did" law ?
I think human are responsible for all they do , that's why human died !
But Jesus Christ died for us so we can live !
There are those who pursue to visit as many place as they can in one time ! The opposite type are those who spend time only in a few places !
Isn't cooking in a way similiar like music ?
Just today, about an hour ago , an earthquake in Jakarta. The central is said to be in the Selat Sundanesse Strait - just above Jakarta with 6,2 Ritcher scale - people are worrying it's potential to create a Tsunami - a warning is announced in TV - but so far nothing happen, Thanks God !
Casualities is raising to at least 397 person dead - many still missing.
It is reported that the water reached 2-3 km from the shore lines. There are casualities , mostly those who are in the beach line - reported 20 people found in Pangandaran beach including a foreigner. At least there are 2 hotel right in front of the beach that are damaged - strucked by the tsunami . Other affected place are Kebumen village, Tasikmalaya, Pangandaraan , Cilacap - basically the south line of Java.
An earthquake in Indonesia ,again ,- more than 5,5 ritcher !
The time we use for doing something cannot be used for other thing - and as our time in the world is limited - even fixed - the missusage of time is an extremely very expensives mistake !
"Human are kind" - lead to a "positive approach" that human will tend to do good !
The ideas of turn the packaging become the content somehow seems also works ! As the creativity then might shifted from doing the content to the packaging - would it reduce the quality of new invention of the content !
I disagree with "as long as you are closed with customer, you can sell everything".
"Asian people respect the relationships, they value the face !" , an european colleagues about asian people during a break in a nice business gathering. Some of them already fell in love with Asia !
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My first chinesse new year event , last 2 years, I met the so called the "respected" elder of my wife's family. Seems everybody is listening to him.
Profit is the cost to sustain the business !
What is cheap ?
It's a question of who can be the judge ! And there is only one Judge , God !
The circle of hattrace is a strong chain ! It's not easy not to reveange those who do very bad things to you ! To forgive is not that easy !
From ancient times to now, there are always a dominant party - even communism cannot relinquish it - there are still a "govern"ment in communist country !
"What is the definition of terrorist ?" , an attack to those who accuse Al Qaeda of being terrorist !